Welcome! My name is Jillian Adler, and I am a licensed psychotherapist based in New York City. My therapeutic style is non-judgmental, caring, direct, and light-hearted. I believe compassion, rather than critique, is necessary in order to make positive changes, and that principle guides my work. I am passionate about working with individuals to overcome obstacles, meet their goals, and ultimately lead the life they envision for themselves. I have experience working with eating disorders, depression, anxiety, gender dysphoria, sexual identity, life transitions, romantic relationships, and general life stressors. I hold a masters degree from New York University and a B.A. from George Washington University.
Weekends After 5pm
Weekends 9am - 5pm
Weekdays 9am - 5pm
Weekdays Before 9am
Weekdays After 5pm
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Sliding scale
Directive
Reflective
In-person available: No
Virtual available: Yes
Self-Esteem
Imposter Syndrome
Anxiety
Young Adulthood
Eating Disorder
Dating
Body Image
Anthem
Oscar
Cigna
Aetna
Optum
United / Oxford
NY
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Get to Know Jillian
I have received training in eating disorders at the Institute of Contemporary Psychotherapy
This ranges from client to client. If a client needs more engagement in order to open up, I am happy to be a more active therapist. If the client needs to do more self-exploration, I will also be happy to take a less participatory role. While it ranges from client to client, it also ranges from session to session. Ultimately, it is based on how the client would most benefit.
I prefer not to share too much about myself, unless I find it would be helpful to the client. It is the client's time to work on themselves, and I would never want to take away from that time by sharing information about myself that isn't necessary. However, I have to recognize that the bond between the therapist and client is critical for the work, so if I find it helpful for building a therapeutic alliance, I will share.
Our relationship will be different than relationships with your friends/loved ones because I will never judge you for your choices, get sick of hearing about your problems, and I will try to never bring my own biases into the room. It is your time to talk about YOU and to receive help with your issues unapologetically. Additionally, I am a trained mental health practitioner who will use specific tools and techniques to help benefit you.
Therapy is a way for individuals to build self-esteem, overcome obstacles, and realize what they want in this world. It is, then, a way for them to figure out how to achieve what they want. Additionally, it is a place where people can come on a tough day and know they will not be judged or ridiculed. Instead, it is an unconditionally kind and safe space meant to whole-heartedly benefit the client.